Sorry to hear of your issues. I’d be pissed too. Oddly enough, I was recently contemplating getting a new s-works frame for the new Tarmac SL8. I have a nice SL6 that I like and I was jonesing for a new bike. I can technically “afford” a new frame and build up. But then I started to think about the need vs. want as well as what I would do if my beautiful new bike got scratched or if I wiped out…I would be so mad. So, then I talked myself out of it. I figure the $5,500 (add taxes and it’s almost 6k out the door) would be better put to use to complete the deck redo I’ve been wanting to do for a while. My wife gave me her blessing to get the frame, but I am going to hold off for now.
Hope you can do a close color match. Maybe consider watching some youtube videos…I’ve seen guys do a great job with color matching and using super fine sandpaper (like 2,000 grit) to blend it. I’m not sure I could be that bold and pull it off, but maybe you will be! 
Good luck!