Not that it would guide my buying decision but if you’re between two bikes and one will result in no overlap i’d let it be a deciding factor. My newer frame has it where my older did not and its scared the **** out of me on smaller hairpin turns or even rolling slow trying to navigate through an area with a lot of cars/planters/garbage cans/etc.
Learning to do those maneuvers with cranks at 6 and 12 vs 3 and 9 has been a bit of mental gymnastics.
Maybe this is the real reason pros are switching to shorter cranks. 
I’m having the same problem. I went to try the Madone… and that happens. I’m not sure about the Ultimate, but I think it also happens with the Aeroad. I think it doesn’t happen with the Scott Foil. I think I’m going to buy that one.
I have lots of toe overlap as I ride a teenytiny bike with flat pedals (which in my natural riding position sits under the arch and therefore I have much more toe in front than if I was clipped in). Its ok with flats as, if I can remember, I can shuffle my foot back to create the room. Except if I am riding the gravel bike down a steep technical descent, and then I’ve got to make the choice whether to feel less secure on the pedals or risk overlap on a tight turn.
And this is with the extra small frame having a slacker head angle to give a little more room than the bigger sizes.
I have got less worried about it as time goes on with the bike though, it is becoming automatic to shuffle my foot back on a turn and I don’t panic if my toe does catch now because I know I can deal with it.
I absolutely would not cope with toe overlap if I was riding clipless though, not a chance. My solution in that case would be to not ride the gravel bike 
This aero road bike doesn’t exist, you’re best bet would be one of the new breed of aero gravel bikes because they have longer front centres.
With a sz 13 shoe, and preferring my cleats a little further back, I don’t think I’ve owned a bike where toe overlap wasn’t a thing.
Way too upright. That’s not aero 
That was my “jumping ramps over burning newspapers” bike. Yes, my dad did like Evel Knievil! He’d have also tanned my hide if he knew we did that.
You only get aero on the bike when you are adjusting the clothes pins that hold your playing cards in the spokes
I had the 5 speed version with thumb shifter. It was the perfect bike for playing “bike tag”, a somewhat dangerous game we used to play. I still remember bringing that bike home and riding it in circles inside the garage because it was a rainy day (silly parents wouldn’t let me roll in the rain).
One of my cousins had one of these. One time when trying to make a getaway (as kids do) I became off-balance & almost crashed it because when trying to throw my leg over the seat to get on it, my shin bashed into its extra-long hoop at the back of the seat.
