So I was in a similar boat to you about which bike but not about 1x or 2x.
Been riding 3 years now SRAM mechanical 1x11, 10-42 came as standard. Done hoards of multi day adventures and one day races (Milers mostly).
Have drafted in 38, 40 and 46 chainrings to the mix of options, course, terrain and profile dependent. Recently (January) ‘upgraded’ rear cassette to eThirteen 9-46 and was stunned at the extra ‘gearing’ it gave me.
3 weeks back I was bike jacked so have been looking at what to get.
The genre of gravel is split into discreetly two camps, pure racing and adventuring. My bike I made work between the two but always felt limited to tyre width, max was 47x700c. That was my biggest bug bear.
Sitting looking at four options, Cannondale Super Six Evo SE (as the CX is restricted by tyre width), Canyon Grizl CF SL7 eTap, Curve GMX+ and the Lauf Seigla Race Wireless.
Canned the SE as I didn’t think I ever needed 2x, there were times I may have wanted 2x but never needed it. Probably more times I was grateful having had 1x than 2x based on usage.
Canned the SL7 based on tyre width and canned the Curve as I felt it lent more towards adventuring than being nimble when wanting to race.
Waiting on insurance claim to payout and will order the Lauf, the big deciding factor was the huge tyre width it can take, totally fine that it is 1x with 10-44, although I will be adding a mullet 10-52 to the setup with an extra GRX deraileur for those rides that I will feel it will be needed, and then comfortably throw in 57mm rubber.
I steered away from a 2x (for the next bike) as I never felt I was taking a knife to a gun fight from my original set up as I had options with the extra chainrings, and simple to install, change chain depending on ring size and setting the B screw was never an issue.