No I’m saying boys are and should be there to be active too, competition should always be secondary to participation. But thanks for assuming the worst intentions in my post
I don’t believe any of this should be a gender thing, just trying to explain that folks pace/protect teammates all the time with no intent on winning and it’s widely accepted (after you said it’s OK as long as the pacer is going for the win). Sorry if it came off poorly, not my intent.
understood.